My Maidens of Virtue....

A couple of years ago, my daughters and I along with many other mother's and daughters started a monthly study/get-together for Bible study, book study, encouragment and fellowship. The book that we started with is called "Raising Maidens of Virtue"...so our little group was christened our "Maidens Group". Well...we've worked thru that book and are about 2/3 of the way thru the book "Beautiful Girlhood" and the study guide. The most mothers and daughters that we've had has been around 20 but the average meeting has about 16 each month.

This group has been such a blessing to all of us. We've dug into God's word to see what He says about Biblical Womanhood ( and girlhood, of course), we've had wonderful discussions where all of us ( moms included) have been able to support, encourage and exhort one another in our walk with the Lord, in our parenting, and in our marriages...and the girls are all learning at their mother's side...sometimes along with us. It is fun to see quite a few of the young ladies bring some form of handwork to do as we talk...knitting, crocheting, embroidery...it is not required, and not everyone does it, but it is fun to see what the girls are all creating. It is also fun to see how many pairs of sisters there are: usually if all are attending, there are four sets of sisters. Three are pictured. :)

Sara and Meghan

Hannah and Courtney

Michaela and Morgan

This past Monday, we had our December meeting/ Christmas party. We read a chapter, prayed, discussed and prayed some more...then we had an ornament exchange with the girls...what fun they had! There was lots of wonderful food...from stuffed mushrooms, ham hordeovoures, bruschetta on homemade toast points, pistachio cake, citrus cake, Mrs. W's famous dip and chips, homemade chocolate confections ( the oreo trifles were amazing!) and of course the ever present popcorn! Afterwards, each girl had a chance to make a beautiful ribbon board ( courtesy of the Goettel's!) to take home as a special keepsake that they had made with our Maiden's friends...all in all, it was a very special, memorable evening!

We're so gratedful for this group of friends...moms and daughters alike! I so appreciate the kindred spirits that I have found and the fellowship that I need as much as the girls.

Most of our girls have been friends for almost 10 years now...and they are all such wonderful young women...I'm so glad they have each other for support, encouragement, accountability...as well as fun and friendship! Just had to share another one of our joys of this season! ~Sue~

Some Links...

For some very good articles! I will be making more lists of our favorite websites soon!

This first one made me laugh-it is great and so true! I love it!
http://www.empoweredtraditionalist.com/2008/12/10/3-ways-to-be-a-feminist-in-disguise/

This is just a great website overall! It is chock full of very convicting and thought-provoking posts.
http://visionarydaughters.com/

This is also a wonderful website run by Jennie Chancey.
http://www.ladiesagainstfeminism.com/artman/publish/index.shtml

This is the archives to all articles in the wonderful Christian women's magazine Above Rubies
http://rubies.articledirectoree.com/articles/

More links will be coming soon on the side of the blog! I just have to set aside time to copy and paste the URL's. :)

Family...

We had a wonderful family get together yesterday at my sister's house for my nephew's 17th birthday...of course, it was a Steeler party as well! It was so nice to see everyone, lots of great food ( way to go, Lor!)...and it was Ronnie's first outing since his surgery 12 days ago. He did well....he's trying to do too much, though...have to rein him in since he feels so good!

Sometimes, family is not just blood relatives...sometimes, we can have special friends....old friends or new friends...kindred spirits, someone who you just know God brought into your life to be a special friend....someone who feels like family....

We had a treat yesterday...our old friend ( goodness...she's been my sister's best friend since 1973!) Debbie was there. Deb is so sweet...and so funny! Who else but a really old friend, would remember the silly things you used to do as a child, and will sit and sing all the old songs with you (Deb, I promise you can sing lead...I don't mind singing backup, now!) ...remembering all the old school friends you both know and laughing hysterically about some of the things you used to do. It's always special when we get to spend time with Debbie.

Well...off to the craft store for paints and glitter for our saltdough ornaments. ( after getting some laundry started, of course! LOL) Will post pictures of our creations when they are done...Ronnie and Anna are so excited! One thing we're doing this year is helping Ronnie and Anna make 'edible nativity scenes'....we did this when Meghan and Sara were little and they were so proud of their creations and it is every bit as much fun as making gingerbread houses. We'll have to do a seperate post for that activity! Hope everyone has a very blessed day! ~Sue~

Proverbs 17:17

"A friend loves at all times." This was one of the first verses I memorized when I was little, and recently I've been reminded of how the Lord's blessed me with such wonderful friends.

All day Friday I spent time with my 'kindred spirits' and I think we all spent more time giggling and talking than anything. Saturday I woke up feeling 'blah' with a pounding headache, a stomach ache, chills and shakes. (Odd, because I hardly ever get sick)No fever but I dosed off most of the day. I was so bummed I couldn't go to Tori's Sweet 16 party that night but I told Sara to take pictures and tell me everything. Later that night, at around seven thirty that night, Alaina called and a bunch my friends who were there told me how much I was missed and to 'get well soon.' I put down the phone after her cell phone lost reception and I teared up. (For those who don't know me very well, I tear up over a lot of things.) As tired and yucky I felt, I felt like I was being showered with God's blessings and goodness. The night progressed and all I was left with at midnight when I went to sleep (after watching It's a Wonderful Life) I was left with some aches and pains and a lingering headache. I stayed up to finish watching It's a Wonderful Life and began crying at the end.

When George Bailey picked up the copy of Tom Sawyer his 'guardian angel' Clarence had left him, he read Clarence's note and then reads, "No one is a failure who has friends."

Mum and I were talking about me staying home from the party last night. As bummed as I was, I felt so blessed after Alaina called and I heard her message, I opened and read a letter from a dear friend, I thought about the party this past Friday. I am so blessed-with friends from church, friends I've never even met and friends who are truly kindred spirits. Proverbs 17:17 came to mind as I thought about writing this post and I was struck by it's applicability. It's short, simplistic yet meaningful. I thank the Lord for all my friends!

For the joy of human love,

Brother, sister, parent, child

Friends on earth and friends above,

For all gentle thoughts and mild.

Lord of all, to thee we raise

This our hymn of grateful praise.

Blessed Sabbath Rest!

I love the devotional "Streams in the Desert"! The Lord never fails to speak to me thru this little book...and today, in the midst of this busy Christmas season, and a wonderful Sabbath day, that our Lord set aside for our benefit, I had to share this particular devotional and hope that it blesses you as much as it has blessed me! ~Sue~

"He went up into a mountain apart" (Matt. 14:23).

"One of the blessings of the old-time Sabbath was its calm, its restfulness, its holy peace. There is a strange strength conceived in solitude. Crows go in flocks and wolves in packs, but the lion and the eagle are solitaires.

Strength is not in bluster and noise. Strength is in quietness. The lake must be calm if the heavens are to be reflected on its surface. Our Lord loved the people, but how often we read of His going away from them for a brief season. He tried every little while to withdraw from the crowd. He was always stealing away at evening to the hills. Most of His ministry was carried on in the towns and cities by the seashore, but He loved the hills the best, and oftentimes when night fell He would plunge into their peaceful depths.

The one thing needed above all others today is that we shall go apart with our Lord, and sit at His feet in the sacred privacy of His blessed presence. Oh, for the lost art of meditation! Oh, for the culture of the secret place! Oh, for the tonic of waiting upon God! " ~May you all have a very blessed Sabbath today! ~Sue~

$4.90 cents worth of chicken....

Ok...I was just so tickled, that I had to post what we did today. With a 10# bag of chicken leg quarters that was on sale for .49 cents a pound, $1.89 for eggs and $1.99 worth of flour...here's what we got:

a large pot of chicken soup (with lots of leftovers)...and homemade spaetzle dumplings to go with it.

a large pot of chicken stew for a dear friend and her family who have been hit with a terrible flu...we're talking 104 degree fevers!

4 loaves of bread

enough spaetzle dumplings to have with a little pork and sauerkraut later this week.

6 quarts of chicken broth to freeze

and about 8 cups of chicken frozen in 2 cup increments for future casseroles.

~I love when the local grocery store runs these specials on chicken leg quarters...we stock up and still have 20 pounds frozen! They are great roasted with potatoes, and we'll probably make up some chicken chili and cornbread one day as well. YUM!....now off to clean up all the pots and pans while my littles make some saltdough ornaments! (lots of glitter !) After that...Meghan and I will put a good old Doris Day movie on and relax until Dad and Sara get home....I'll be ready to relax by then! Ok...my break is over! LOL ~Sue~

Fiesta numero uno fin de semana

(By the Way, the title is 'party number one this weekend')

We just got home from the party for Courtney's 18th birthday party! It was so much fun! I spent it with my closest friends and best friend, Sara, for the whole day. In the morning, after arriving at their house at ten o'clock, we talked for a little bit and then had a delicious brunch. (I could kick myself for not bringing my camera!) The table was set beautifully-all matching (of course!)and very elegant. The food was delicious; they made stuffed sausage garlic bread, mini egg quiches, gourmet coffee (my favorite!), ham, and fresh grapes. We all did so much talking we didn't eat much! After that we kept talking, but moved into the great room for Courtney to open her gifts from us. Then we all had petite slices of a tiny cake that was really a child's smash cake but just small enough to be used after the brunch! After this we all bundled up and drove to a nursing home in Mckeesport to sing a few Christmas hymns for the elderly. They were all so sweet and nice. I think they really liked us coming and singing and I'm glad we blessed them.

After this we travelled back to the house and helped get ready for the birthday dinner for Courtney and Lila. We all chatted while we cleaned up, baked, cooked, etc. So it really took hardly any time at all-and it was fun! We all got a chance to hang out for the rest of the night and talk to each other-a whole day with one's closest friends doesn't seem sufficient to me! When my dear friend, Michaela, left with her family I still felt (even after being with her all day) that the visit was too short! Courtney and Hannah, being assistant hostesses, looked to be tiring out when Mum, Sara and I left at about quarter past nine. This day is going to stand out to me for the rest of my life as one of the most memorable and fun days with my friends. I got to spend a whole day with, Sara, Courtney, Hannah, Michaela and Morgan-and yet when I left I still felt the visit was short. Time flies when you're having fun. I am so glad the Lord blessed me with all these kindred spirits! Here are some pictures from the party, taken by Sara. She took some great ones!

Courtney and I

Sara & I

Mrs. Sames and MumMichaela and Morgan Williams

Some of my blessings....

My three "Little Women"....I am so blessed! I love this picture of the girls...not only are they my daughters, but also my best friends.....honestly, there is no one else I would rather spend time with than Ron and all 4 of my children! Anything we do as a family is always better than if we do it seperately, or with anyone else!

One of my greatest blessings...my wonderful hubby! After 22 years together, he is still (and always will be) my special guy...my world revolves around him...and my children.

These are just 3 of my blessings...Ronnie, Anna, and my incredibly cute nephew, Ty in the middle! In our house, we call ourselves the "Ty Fanclub"...when he is here, none of us can concentrate on anything else...he is that cute! The most alert, nebby baby I've ever seen...wants to look at everything at the same time....just thought this was too cute...had to post!

I am blessed...I have all that I need! ~Sue~